Don’t be afraid to see what you didn’t see back then. I don’t care what other people think about me getting divorced.
The dating parent should not introduce new people into their kid’s lives until they have some stability in their life.
When it comes to coping with divorce, everyone does it in his or her own way.
I’ve written blogs in the past about both bad and good behavior that men and women exhibit while going through a divorce. Part of coping with divorce is sometimes telling ourselves things that will soothe our pain and make us feel better about our situation, our decisions and our actions.
Do not allow your ex to control your life and prevent you from dating.The last thing they need is to be exposed to another disintegrating relationship.Wait until you are very sure of your new relationship and both of you have realistic expectations of what a blended family is about. If he abused you, or if she cheated on you, yes, it probably is. They probably will, but they will still love both their parents unconditionally, and that’s actually a good thing. I know how to stay away from dysfunctional relationships. Just realize what the relationship is, and DON’T MARRY THE PERSON! You will eventually meet or see some guy or girl who will make your heart stop and you will remember that you liked sex. My kids are going to grow up and realize what he or she did to me. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and fix your life yourself.